Don’t tell the clients personal information. Including full name, address, social media or anything that can trace you. You need to be able to block them from your life from one day to the other. I used an non-personal LINE account for contact.

Don’t share your civil status. I do papakatsu as a married women, but none of my clients know this. They think I’m single. They think they have a chance.

Let them dream. Similar to the above, I always make them think they have a chance when it comes to adult action. Meaning, if they ask me if it possible, I tell them I do not engage in such activities with strangers, but if we got to know each other, who knows. Telling them from the begging that such things are completely off the table, will make them lose interest in you. They need to desire you.

Do not get into a car with them. Or any other place that is cut off from other people. Don’t put yourself in any dangerous situations. Always meet at public places.

Set the rules. Decide your payment and whether you are willing to do more than “dinner” on that specific date meeting.

Watch out for runners. I have not experienced this personally, but sugar daddies skipping out on bills are out there. They promise you 200 dollars and an expensive meal. Suddenly they go to the toilet and never come back. You do not get your 200 dollars and you are stuck with a 300 dollar check as well. When I go to expensive places and my date gets up to go to the toilet, I always check if they left personal items behind. So far, all of them lefts their bags and phones behind, which made me sure they would come back.

Don’t do things you don’t want to. Don’t let them pressure you into things you will regret later.

Have fun. As soon as you dislike doing this, quit.