Who am I?

You might be wondering what sort of girl gets into this weird life style. Am I single? Am I struggling financially? An attention seeker?

The fact is that I am actually married, with children, living here in Japan. My sugar girl activities are strictly non-sexual and my husband is well aware of this side hustle I’m pulling and do not mind.

I’m hiding my identity, not to avoid discovery from my family or close friends, but more to avoid discovery from my clients, less-close friends, future employers and other people from our social circle, who may not agree with this type of lifestyle.

So, what can I share? I’m an European women, closing in on 30. I speak fluent Japanese, which is obviously useful. I used to do several parttime jobs, now I’m doing papakatsu for the weirdness and easy money. I hope to continue this, even after I hopefully secure a full time job in a near future.

How did I get started?

I had heard about well paid hostesses for a long time and lately the term “papakatsu” (Sugar dating) started showing up more and more in the media. I myself was getting fed up with my part time jobs which I had recently quit and I was looking for a easy way to earn a little money without getting tied down by contracts and work hours. I have often been complimented by my looks, told I should pursue modeling.

I know I’m not very photogenic, nor to I have the right body required for that, but I was aware that I did hold many of the qualities that Japanese saw as standards of beauty and even more importantly, I had the right qualities to be desired by Japanese males.

I’m average height, average weight. I have big breasts and a hourglass shape. I have porcelain white skin, the perfect sized nose, big green eyes, pouty lips and nice teeth. I have a good sense of fashion, style and especially make-up. I’m talk-active, smily and bubbling, when I want to and more than anything I’m a great liar and manipulative by nature.

I decided to look into papakatsu, asked my husband if he would be supportive of this and signed up on several pages. Shortly after the offers started coming in and suddenly I was on dates every single day, some even on the same day. I have now been doing it for 2 months and while my earnings wont pay the rent, I am certainly making nice money without the actual effort.